She's unhappy in her relationship with a man and she's trying to figure out how to feel better about life.Įven though she's been questioning her sexual preferences for a while, she may believe she has to stay married. Who is responsible for this messy situation? She and her husband have a life and probably a house and kids and bills and extended family. Don't expect it to be easy or for the wife to depart her marriage without a lot of hesitating, questioning, and false promises. It's surprisingly common - but that doesn't mean it'll end well.ĭo lesbians fall for women who are married to men? All the time! And if that's you, be prepared for things to get hard.

Especially when someone shows up and starts paying attention to a woman who is lonely and desperately wants someone to really see her and appreciate her. When a relationship goes into the doldrums and distance starts to grow between a couple, an affair always becomes a possibility.